Take into consideration that a lot of deities are portrayed really badly or in an unsatisfactory way throughout mythologie and throughout different stories created about them. they dont understand the cultural context of the mythology surrounding the deity the culture that it originates form. I was having a conversation .... about how people say that they hate hades because he kidnapped perse and took her to the underworld with ought understanding that that was a normal marriage practice. it wasn't a raising red flags thing greek myth, people got kidnapped to go into marriages that was normal. not justify some of the things that extremely patriarchal cultures have done throughout history. take a more nuanced look at the mythologies, not just writing of such a multifaceted deity.